Education

What is education?

If I was asked this question at the start of our homeschool journey (or before), or even just a few years ago, I'd given you a much different answer than today. At the start of our homeschool journey I would have limited it to reading, writing, and arithmetic with the end goal being going to college for a job. While this is definitely a piece of it, I'm seeing it is just a small piece. 

As I slowly became more familiar with a classical education, my understanding slowly changed, though still focused on the end goal being a college degree and a set career (and my own pride being affirmed if I'm being honest). Now, we just had better tools to get there. The classical model showed me natural methods we are hard wired to use in gathering, understanding, and communicating information. And so, we practiced those tools, still with the end goal primarily limited to college and a specific career path. But, what happens when your kids aren't set on the trajectory you had initially planned? What happens when your educational ideas are met with struggle and unexpected hurdles, leaving you questioning your decisions? 

The mission of Classical Conversations is "To Know God, and Make Him Known." I was on board with this mission from the get go, when I walked through our community doors with a 4 year old, 3 year old, and 1 year old. But, I didn't really get it. I didn't really get it until the past few years.  When Hannah was in 9th grade, I was unraveling with the work load of her Challenge class (let me dispel the myth that homeschoolers don't do anything. Come see a Classical Conversations Challenge class.) and some of the learning struggles she was facing. I was on the precipice of choosing something different, in hopes it would better prepare her for life after high school. I'm so thankful I didn't. Because that's when my understanding of education began to dramatically shift. Education was so much more than getting into a college and finding a solid career. 

Those classical tools we'd been practicing began to be useful in everyday life. Those classical tools were used to approach the reading of Scripture. Those classical tools helped my daughter ask a non believer at work who struggled with her identity and other cultural hot topics good questions, while listening well and still remaining friends even when they disagreed. In their Challenge classes the kids are given differing worldviews and opportunities to discuss them while be equipped to disagree in love and kindness. These classical tools helped my kids define important words that the world has redefined based on the cultural flow. These classical tools provided them with multiple opportunities to stand in front of their class to defend their thoughts, recite memorized speeches, or debate a current event, while also handling differing opinions. The result? A confidence that has steadied them in the "real world" when surrounded by people who think and act very differently than they do. 

A classical education goes beyond the classical tools of learning and moves into using those tools to identify truth, goodness, and beauty, words increasingly unfamiliar in our culture today. They discuss books, looking for the heroes, defining a hero, and debating those ideas. What is virtue? They wrestle with this, they define it, they look for it. What makes something beautiful? How do we see the Creator in all He has created, even math? These are the conversations my kids get to be immersed in (and  I do too) as we think about the world and how we operate in it as the image bearers of the One who created it all. I am fortunate enough to have a front row seat to these discussions as a Challenge tutor. It has been rewarding and it has reshaped my answer to my initial question, what is education?

When Hannah was preparing to graduate last year, the main question she got was, "where are you going to college?" With my role as both a Local Representative and a Challenge tutor with Classical Conversations, a popular question I'm asked is, "will this prepare my kids for college?" or "How do they do on the SATs?" These are well meaning questions, questions I also asked, but, they fall short of the bigger picture. Perhaps we should be asking (this from a Christian perspective), "will this prepare my child for the WORLD?" Will this equip my child to actively engage our world in a way that honors the Lord and promotes goodness, truth, and beauty wherever they go?" It's an odd question, but I think more of the right question. I don't care so heavily anymore on what job my kids take, as long as they engage fully and wholeheartedly with the same mission they've always heard, "to know God and make Him known," because, that is education...to run hard after the Creator of ALL knowledge, wisdom, and understanding and to walk that out in whatever path the Lord puts them on, whether it's 4 year college, technical college, or the mission field (I'd debate everywhere is the mission field, but that's another topic for another day). Education doesn't stop after graduation, it's a lifelong endeavor that informs the whole person: spiritual, physical, mental, and emotional, and all for the glory of Him who made us to know Him more deeply. 

This, I believe, is a more robust understanding of education.

Loving and Learning: Hannah is 18!

 

I started this blog 18 years ago with the birth of Hannah. It seems both like it was yesterday and like it was a million years ago. And the thought of writing an 18 year old Hannah post seemed light years away to that wide eyed and expectant mom. But here we are. And while the posting of the kids' lives on here has basically come to a halt, I couldn't NOT post this, an appropriate place to ponder the 18 years the Lord has blessed me with watching this daughter grow and mature. I've learned SO MUCH these 18 years through her life and I've loved SO MUCH. Here's what I've LOVED and LEARNED through Hannah:

1. She's funny. Upon first impression to most, Hannah comes across quiet and reserved, and that she is. Her first year of life was often representative of that with her stoic face; however, to those who know her well, she's more funny than serious. In fact, sometimes it drives me crazy and I'm known to say, "can you be serious for a minute?" But, her humor is a gift and, especially during the hectic season we're in, keeps a light hearted pulse in the midst of it all. If being a comedian was a viable career, she'd be a great candidate. 

2. She's a good listener. Hannah isn't one to talk much in large group settings. It's been her way since she was little. At times, I've encouraged her to speak up, say more, share your ideas. But, as she's lived 18 years of life, that hasn't changed...much. BUT, she listens well. It's funny she's been enrolled in Classical CONVERSATIONS her whole educational life. I know she listens well because...

3. She communicates well to me. I'm SO THANKFUL for this. I don't take it for granted. She talks to me. She shares what she hears and processes through it often with me. This is not because I'm an awesome mom. I've made so many mistakes with Hannah. I've been hard on Hannah. I've probably caused her to cry the most (out of my frustration) as a homeschool mom. And yet, the Lord has given Hannah a heart that is soft toward me. It is truly a gift. And so I know she's a listener because she shares what she hears with me, the good, the bad, the funny. And I'm thankful for all of it. 

4. She's contented. There's not much that ruffles Hannah's feathers, or at least, not for a long period of time. She's been dropped in new, uncomfortable environments the past 7 years more often than I ever was at her age, and while I carried much of the heartache of new beginnings and changes and some isolation, she walked through them much more gracefully. Of course there was complaining from her at times and struggle, but when we told her to walk into the awkwardness, she did it...over and over again. 

5. She's forgiving. Like I said, I probably have made Hannah cry more than my other kids during her first 4 years of school. She learns much differently than I do/did. She struggles much more in school than I did. And I got frustrated. So frustrated. And there were tears. Lots of tears from her and from me as we sat at the school room table trying to figure it out. And I was unkind at times. And yet, she forgave me. She may not have used those words, but her actions showed it over and over again. 

6. She's loose ligamented. I know, this isn't serious. But, we need a seriousness break. After her knee popped out of joint, we started making connections...oh, it makes sense now why you can walk through your arms, bend your elbows way back, and why, when you come with me to the gym, your joints keep bending beyond the natural trajectory with weights. So, she's careful with the joints. 

7. She likes rap. Continuing with the seriousness break, I love that Hannah loves rap. I mean, I did raise them on Lecrae, Flame, KB, and the whole 116 gang so I guess it was bound to happen. If I did anything right, I did this. 

8. She's not too cool for me. Speaking of rap, she (and Grant and Kate) didn't bat an eye when I asked if they wanted to go to a KB concert with me, their mom. Hannah, at 17 years old, was excited to see KB with me. It could have partially been to see me act totally unhinged (as much as a white, middle age, suburban mom can be) at a KB concert. But I'm so thankful she wanted to go WITH ME and didn't think twice about it.

9. She doesn't like movies or tv. Ok, this I don't understand. I enjoy a good tv show and a good movie. It's how I wind down. Hannah does not. I don't know if it's because it requires an attention span that "kids these days" don't have thanks to phones and technology. She used to watch Bambi and The Fox and the Hound incessantly every morning when she was little while I got ready for the day. Maybe that burned her out. 

10. She's not competitive. While Hannah enjoys running and is naturally good at it, she lacks the competitive nature to make her great at it. She's told me more than once that she genuinely doesn't care if people beat her. While this poses a problem for me as her cross country coach, I realize it also may be a strength because, unlike me at her age, her identity is not wrapped up in her performance...as a runner, as a student, etc. I'm thankful for this. She can have a bad race, and go on with her day contented and unchanged by that. If she were to win the race, I honestly believe it would be the same response. We've talked before how our identities rest solely in the work of Christ and His righteousness. I'm so very thankful that she is not wrestling with her identity in her performance.

11. She loves animals. She loves dogs. She loves our dogs. She's less into Georgie though. Sorry, George.

12. She loves tasty drinks. I think I passed this on to her as well. If calories could be consumed solely by drinks, she'd be covered (as would I). She loves Coke, non coffee drinks at Dunkin and Starbucks, and whatever the latest energy drink is these days (I know, they're not healthy).

13. She likes the gym. This is new. She's been going with me and she said, "I really like going to the gym." I do too. I think it's the challenge of exercising without the pressure of performing and competing. And, there's a lot of great people we've met at the gym. 

14. She's thoughtful. Just this month, at the beach, she saw a shirt I'd love. She knows I love t-shirts. And she bought it for me. She's always been thoughtful. If she goes to buy herself a drink, she always offers to buy me one. I'm thankful for that. And if she's making a grilled cheese or a quesadilla, she makes me one too. 

15. She's secure. Hannah doesn't feel the pressure to be someone she's not. As she's grown, she's not afraid to be who she is, both the good and the bad. Like us all, she has sin to work on and areas to grow, but she also doesn't hide that. She's not fake. Who she is around one person is who she is around another person. I value that. At her age, I don't think I was like that. I was too much of a people pleaser and still struggle with this. 

16. She's not emotional. This can be good and bad. But it is who she is. Other friends have asked me how we handled the emotions that come along with teenage girls. But it's been pretty calm seas over here in that regards. Hannah is pretty steady, even keel. Are there times I think more emotions should be at play, yes, absolutely. But I also think that will come as life hits in different ways over the years. I was probably the cause of most of her tears and it was earlier in life and over the math. 

17. She perseveres. School has been Hannah's hardest struggle. It has not been easy for either of us these past years, especially in math. If you ask Hannah if she loves school, I'll go ahead and tell you, she doesn't. It's not because we homeschool, it's because it's very hard for her. Her brain works differently. It's been an ongoing battle trying to figure out how it best works. We've tried so many methods, strategies, and techniques and it's just hard. We've had testing done with little help there. But, she keeps going....well, she has to by default, but when something is hard and you do it over and over again, it takes a lot of perseverance. At her state meet in track last year, she finished last. It was a rough race, Hannah was struggling, and yet, she kept going. It was my proudest moment as her mom. It would be easy to just get off the track and not finish. She was the last one on the track and yet, she kept running. I know she was embarrassed, but I was not. I felt like it was a picture of her perseverance over the past several years of homeschooling. She doesn't give up when it's hard. And it doesn't break her when she struggles through something very hard.

18. She is gracious. Hannah's name means "grace, favor," and looking back at these 18 years it is fitting. She has shown me grace, grace toward a mom who has messed up a lot and often on her as she's the first born who has the extra burden of "getting it right" from the over zealous mom who's trying out all the ideas of "perfect parenting" on her. 

Hannah has been a gift to parent. She's not perfect, she's made lots of mistakes, she has lots of sanctification ahead, but she's my daughter, my first born, my gift from the Lord. She's taught me way more than I ever thought possible. 

This year she asked if we could run a marathon together. While it feels daunting, it feels very appropriate for our journey together, especially our homeschooling journey. It's been a hard journey for both of us, probably one of my hardest, but we both persevered together and have learned so much about life, the Lord, and Latin. And so to finish our journey in May next year with a marathon seems like the perfect ending to this season of both of our lives. We can do hard things, we can do it together...always with the strength, help, and power of the Lord.

I love Hannah. I'm thankful for her. I'm honored to wish her a very Happy 18th Birthday. 

Glory

 I wrestle with wanting glory. I want to be noticed. I want people to think, "wow, look at her." The praise of man is tempting.  It's alluring. But, it's deceitful. And it's bondage. Bondage to myself. Bondage to man and man's view of me. Bondage to trying to work for man's approval and consequently for my identity. It's exhausting and fleeting and never satisfying. Selfishly, I'm hoping I'm not alone with this struggle. I assume since Scripture talks about "men pleasers" and loving the "praise from men more than the praise from God," that I'm not. Even writing this blog post, I struggle with my motive. How do I fight this ugly temptation to seek glory for myself? Then, this evening, I read this in Revelation:

"At once I was in the Spirit, and behold, a throne stood in heaven, with one seated on the throne. And he who sat there had the appearance of jasper and carnelian, and around the throne was a rainbow that had the appearance of an emerald. Around the throne were twenty-thrones, and seated on the thrones were twenty-four elders, clothed in white garments, with golden crowns on their heads. From the throne came flashes of lightning, and rumblings and peals of thunder, and before the throne were burning seven torches of fire, which are seven spirits of God, and before the throne there was as it were a sea of glass, like crystal."  

The magnitude of God's glory and sole worthiness seeped out of those words and immediately my hunger for self glory seemed like a joke, an embarrassment, a farce. Who am I to compete against the glory of the Lord? While I still don't comprehend the full magnitude of His glory, I think tonight I caught a glimpse. It was humbling. And I'm thankful. I pray that when I'm tempted to pursue my own glory and continue to run into the same dead ends, that these words, this picture of a glory I've never fully grasped, would flood my mind and I would turn away from seeking empty glory for myself and find full freedom in directing all glory to Him who alone is worthy. In that freedom, there is rest. Rest from searching for affirmation through man. Rest from placing my identity in the ebbs and flows of man's fickle nature. And in that freedom there is peace. Peace because Christ is my glory. There is no other glory to be had. It is finished. And all glory belongs to Him who is the Beginning and the End, the First and the Last, the Creator, the Lamb who alone was worthy to rescue us from our sin. And it is to Him that all glory shall be freely given. 

40

 It's been three and a half years since I've put anything on my blog. Does anyone read blogs anymore? I'm just thankful this little piece of my life is still available to revisit and is always open for me to work out my rusty fingers and untangle my jostled thoughts.

Today I turned 40. Many of you have already crossed this threshold and perhaps reminisce fondly of these "younger" years in comparison of where you are now. It's funny how our perspectives change as we age. I'm sure one day I will look back at this and share in that perspective. But today, today, it feels a bit monumental. I entered my thirties with three young children, a new (to us) minivan, and a few gray hairs. We were just beginning our official homeschooling journey. Learning to read and potty training were still activities on my daily schedule. I even had naptime as a regular scheduled event...for the kids of course. While my twenties were a period of big changes: graduating college, getting my first real job, marriage, buying a house, and having kids, my thirties proved to be a period of consistency, with no "big" milestones to measure the decade. It was like a steady plodding along, which sometimes proved hard. Galatians 6:9 became a verse of encouragement during a season where the fanfare of new beginnings had passed and the call to be faithful and persevere in the mundane was my present. "And let us not grow weary in doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up." If I'm being honest, the word weary has been a part of my vocabulary a lot in my thirties. Raising three children is not a glamorous job. It's a wonderful job, but it's not glamorous. Homeschooling three children is not a glamourous job. It's a privilege, but it's not glamorous. You see, in my twenties it was easier to be seen. You're graduating? Awesome, let's throw a party and celebrate. You're getting married? How wonderful! Let's have showers and buy all the pretty things! You're pregnant? Let's do a baby shower and bring you meals. You just bought a house? Let's decorate it and fill it up to make it a home. But after those milestones, the celebrations are fewer and farther between. And a lot of the hard work is waiting. 

I say this not for self pity. It's simply a reality, one we all face in some form or another I'm sure. No one throws a party when your struggling reader finally learns to read. Or that stubborn child finally obeys after hours of a standoff of wills. Or your child gets an A on a math test after so many tears of confusion. There's not much fanfare when you celebrate year after year of faithfully staying true to your marriage covenant. And so my thirties were such where I was challenged to persevere despite being "seen" in ways I was in my twenties. It was a season of pressing on in doing good, not giving up in the planting of all kinds of seeds and trusting that in due season, I would reap. And remembering that often times, while man does not "see" me, the Lord does. El Roi does. I think this was a major theme of my thirties. So I planted a lot. I planted good seeds and I planted, unfortunately, some bad seeds. But I'm thankful I serve a God who can work for the good in my marriage and in my kids and in my other relationships in spite of myself. 

And while my thirties were years that were characterized by persevering, the persevering already has produced good fruit. John's business has thrived over the past ten years, a testimony to the Lord's faithfulness to us in His provision through John's hard work and perseverance. Our children are healthy and growing. As they've matured we've been given opportunities to have good conversations about hard topics. I've had a front row seat to my children developing into young adults. The years I've had with them at home are precious and worth more than any other circumstance could give me. Homeschooling has been hard. It's required more of myself than I'm often willing to give. It's required my children to do hard things that have pushed them out of their comfort zones. But they've grown. I've grown. I've taken on different leadership roles within Classical Conversations in my thirties that have required me to stretch and do things that are uncomfortable to me...like flying solo to Washington D.C and dealing with a busted suitcase that didn't quite make it in one piece (among other things, of greater consequence). My later thirties reminded me I'm not invincible. My body is not immune to sickness. Hearing ovarian cancer was a quick wake up call. No one throws parties for that. Thankfully, after enduring 3 months of the unknown, surgery proved it was not ovarian cancer but a benign growth that was easily removed along with the ovary and fallopian tube. I was definitely celebrating here. And those close to me, they were as well. So while the fanfare may not have been as wide in my thirties, it was definitely deeper and more meaningful. My thirties continued to foster deep friendships with a few faithful friends who I know have my back through thick and thin. And of course, my family continues to be the constant in my life that is there in the big fanfare moments and ever present in the smaller fanfare moments and all those moments in between. 

So I sit, looking back at the past ten years that were very different from my twenties. They were formative years that were often built slowly day in and day out of doing the same things, often things that were not seen by anyone, literally. Most of my time has been spent within the four walls of my home with my three kids. It's not glamorous. It's not noteworthy to most. But I know I was planting. And I trust, as the Lord says, that if I don't grow weary and don't give up, I will reap in due season. And so I enter my 40s, continuing to plant, continuing to hold on to that truth, looking forward to more reaping. I know at the end of this decade, my children will all be adults. My life will look completely different. Homeschooling will be my past. But I will say this....there WILL be fanfare when my kids graduate. I hope my 40s include 3 cruises....an opportunity CC provides for graduating seniors. You better believe we will be celebrating...celebrating we ALL made it through. So, here's to my 40s. May I walk gracefully ahead, trusting the Lord, planting good seeds, and reaping good fruit....and boarding some cruises. 

Disney Disaster

We just got back from the Mouse's House.

THE MOUSE.

The M-I-C-K-E-Y  M-O-U-S-E

Where dreams come true and there's no place happier on the earth.

Well, maybe for some.

You see, this picture here tells only part of our magical story. 

I mean, I hate to complain. It's Disney. It's a dream vacation for some. However, it wasn't for us this time. So when people ask me, "Did you have a great time?!" I have to be honest, ya'll. It was a hot mess of a trip sprinkled throughout with fun.  And while there were lots of fun times, lots to be grateful for, and the kids had a blast (because yay for not having to adult), this is the not so good account because, seriously, you can't make this stuff up. 

And you just have to laugh.

Our story started with Hurricane Irma. It looked like Irma and I both thought September 10th would be a fun time to visit Florida. Apparently the "low" crowds at Disney also appealed to her. So, I did what any reasonable person would do, I called to reschedule. Who wants to wait in line for Peter Pan, with Irma? Based on the wait time over the phone, NOBODY did.

But, it's okay. I'm patient. I will listen to the Disney hold music. I know in the big scheme of life, this is no major deal. People's homes and lives were at stake and I'm just trying to reschedule our trip for the following week. I'll hold. 

3 hours and LOTS of Disney music later, BAM! DONE! We were to leave the following week. Easy Peasy. 

Until...

the following Tuesday, the night before we boarded the plane to the "Happiest Place on Earth," I got a call.

"Mrs. Harman, due to the hurricane, Fort Wilderness Cabins will not be open, please call us back to get a refund or see if we can move you to a different resort."

It's NEVER good to miss a call from Disney. NEVER.

(trust me, this wasn't the last time I missed their call)

Because, if you miss that call, you will have to wait, again, in an invisible "line" of other people who are listening to that same music, who are hoping for the same thing, for that music to stop and for that magical voice to speak.

Well, don't hold your breath. I beat my last record of three hours, by one more hour.

Nailed It.

That's when I met Stanley. Our conversation started well. We talked about the weather, literally. He was eager to help me. He informed me we could easily switch to the Art of Animation (one of his favs he told me).

Except....

he then informed me we could only stay there until Saturday (our plane didn't leave until Monday).

There was no other room available in ALL OF DISNEY for us to go. 

That was the word on the street.

Homeless.

Fast fast forward another hour and lots of pleas to help us find a place to stay, Stanley came through.

Art of Animation for three nights, Fort Wilderness Cabins, the last two nights.

We'll take it. Thank you Stanley.

We were Disney Bound the next morning.

While, presently, our lodging issues were solved, another issue emerged. My eye. I woke up with what had to be a scratched cornea. It was a red, watery mess that cowered in the presence of any light. Hoping by the next day, our first day at the parks, it would be better, I sported my ten year old crooked red glasses to the airport (I explained to the kind lady who sat next to me on the plane that I DIDN'T have pink eye just to ease her likely uneasy mind). Even cooler, I managed to wear my sunglasses OVER my glasses to stand a fighting chance against the light that flooded into the Magical Express Bus that picked us up at the airport to take us to the Art of Animation.

I'm glad my kids aren't too cool yet to be embarrassed by their mom wearing glasses AND sunglasses at the same time.

While I couldn't see well out of my one I, I still managed to notice a sea of emergency vehicles and workers upon our arrival at the Art of Animation with my good eye. While others whispered what could be going on, I immediately returned to my conversation with Stanley the night before who had informed me the reason there was "no vacancy" in all of Disney(I still don't believe it) was because of the doctors and nurses they were housing to help with the hurricane. I assumed they must have been housing EMT workers too and policemen. 

Amateurs, I have the inside scoop thanks to Stanley, I thought.

A quick message from a friend outside the Disney bubble informed me otherwise when she sent me an article about our very resort at that very moment we arrived and asked if everything was okay.

The building next to ours had been evacuated because it appeared a meth lab was being run out of it. 

One man was arrested.

Awesome.

Thankfully though, we were oblivious at the time and enjoyed perhaps the most heart stopping ride of our whole trip on the Disney Bus to Disney Springs for dinner. If the driver's goal was to prepare us for Test Track the next day, job well done. We managed to arrive in one piece (I'm not going to lie, I said a prayer for safety) at Disney Springs and did not have the same driver on a much more calm ride back.

My hopes that the next day would bring a healed eye weren't fulfilled. I woke up to my eye almost swollen shut. Determined to have the most magical day EVER, I did a few eye exercises, slipped a contact in it, and donned my sunglasses and kept my head low (thankfully the meth maker was already arrested because if not, I definitely would have looked suspicious). I occasionally took the glasses off only to wipe the water that seemed to gush out....and to take a picture with Mickey, Minnie, and Goofy. I looked awful and vowed to keep them on, whether inside or outside. 

"I Wear My Sunglasses at Night" carried a whole new meaning.

Thankfully, the next morning my eye was holding its own and I could walk without Hannah leading me by the hand. This was especially good since Friday would be our worst Disney day.

It started out great. I didn't have to wear my sunglasses indoors, it was our visit to The Magic Kingdom (my favorite), there were no complaints.

Then, while taking a joyful ride through The Haunted Mansion (figures I should get THE CALL while in here), my phone rings. The "Lake Buena Vista" under the number gave it away that it indeed was Disney. I knew right away this was not good but couldn't pick up because the noise on the ride was too loud. I should have done it anyways.

The message left resembled the one I received Tuesday. Fort Wilderness Cabins was still not opened and we would need to get a refund or they would try to place us at another resort. 

Homeless again.

She said she'd call me back in two hours (she never did) or I could call Guest Services but it would be a LONG wait.

So, there, at the Magic Kingdom, we began our third time on hold with Disney. I wasn't feeling so patient this time. The music was just out right annoying and the smiling faces walking by left me bitter. So much for a happy heart.  We found a place to eat where we could plug in our phone....and wait. And wait we did. After 30 minutes, the music stopped. Someone was ready to talk to me. I was elated. However, after explaining our situation AGAIN the gal informed me it didn't look like there was any place for us to go. But if ANYONE could help, it would be Guest Services but I would be on hold for awhile. 

So, we waited, again.

John and I switched phone holding duties while the other took the kids on a ride. We did this for three hours. 

We walked all over The Magic Kingdom listening to that same music, praying someone would JUST.PICK.UP.

And someone finally did. 

"I can't help you with that," she told me. I was almost in tears. Because we were already on property this had to be handled by the resort, she had explained. I resorted to begging, explaining that the lady told us to remain on hold because they COULD help us.

"Please let me talk to someone who can help us," I begged.

She told me there was no one and that we had to go back to the resort for help.

"Have a Magical Day."

Yeah.

Thankfully, in the midst of this, John found two WONDERFUL ladies who COULD and WANTED to help us at the Magic Kingdom Guest Services. I think my almost tearful face while holding the phone to my ear and the three kids looking cute with their Disney hats, helped. 

The kids and I headed to Hollywood Studios without John while he waited for a conclusion to the madness.

"It's fixed," he texted me a short bit later.

Just.Like.That. 

We get to stay at the meth lab, I mean, Art of Animation.

The cast member who helped us gave us tickets to the Halloween party and a gift card for our troubles. Bright spot.

And so, our day ended on a good note.

3 different reservation numbers though and multiple changes on the computer managed to leave lingering consequences...

We received free dining with the vacation package we bought six months ago. We got a certain number of meal credits for our stay. However, with the multiple switching of reservations, we lost them (along with our bus reservation to take us back to the airport, we got that fixed finally too). We found out the hard way the following day as we went to scan those magical bands and hear "Oh you don't have any more meal credits." Thankfully the kind lady who helped us the day before was a text away and after we paid full price she credited our account and reimbursed us. 

She's the true hero of our story.

As we continued to recover from the fog of the day before, John realized he needed to recover from motion sickness of the present day. Not as spry as he used to be, John fell victim to the sudden jerks, twists, and turns of many of the thrill rides from the day. 

We head back to the resort for a bit of rest and some fun at the pool.

"Make sure you wear shoes," I tell them all as we prepare to head to the pool.

No one heeds my advice.

John pays dearly for it.

The bottom of his feet were burned. 

Using what we had, we rubbed Chapstick over the forming blisters in hopes, maybe, just maybe, it would help ease the discomfort just enough so he could go with us to the Animal Kingdom.

Well, I'll go ahead and tell you, Chapstick won't do the trick.

So, the non thrill seeking mom, heads to The Animal Kingdom to ride Expedition Everest, again, with my thrill seeking kids (well Hannah is a semi thrill seeker) along with the other rides. 

I told them as we inched up the incline AGAIN that they should never doubt my love for them. 

John had remained laid out on the bed hoping tomorrow would be different. Thankfully, it was.

Sunday, our last day, was our most non eventful day. But we were tired. All of us. But we pressed on because tonight was The Halloween Party. And while we were thankful for the free tickets (they aren't cheap) it was so crowded and the lines were so long for candy and to meet characters that we decided, after everyone had half a bag full of candy, and we rode Space Mountain AGAIN to end our Disney vacation with a Dole Whip. It was on our list to do since we had never had one.

The Dole Whip was a great way to go out. It was delicious. It may have been one of my favorite things about Disney.

The Dole Whip.

It was redeeming.

That cold, sweet, MAGICAL, goodness.

It was good to us. 

It was like a long refreshing hug, whereafter we breathed a long sigh of relief

because

Disney was Done.